Justme Looking for Some Answer!

I am looking for some Answer, I have some Question that I need some Answer:

1. how do I not jugde pepole who jugde me, without ask my side of things, I know that bible say do not jugde. those you jugde me will be jugde on they judgement day.
2. how do I deal with pepole who have hurt me, without me hurt them?
3. surport, how do I get Surport, without asking my friends to take side.
is the answer the same to all of my Question, them forgive them, pray them, try to be the persom that GODS want to me!
I just need to express myself!