justme jim WChapter 08

Chapter 08

JustmeJimW: Answer Frequently

Asked Question of me.

Question: Why do you call yourself Justmejimw?

Answer: Back in high School, I had no real friends, no social life, I was alone, So it was “JUSTMEJIMW”, that 1965. One At a meeting, I was to induce myself, So I, my name is Jim Winters, no wife, no kids, no pets, no headache, Justme. That no true sometime I Do get headache. JustmeJimW, Is not a put down, it is who I am.

Question: Why do you wear that justme hat?

Answer: In the summer of 2002, I went to my high school all class picnic, and my 35^th high class reunion, I want before to know who I am, So I had that hat made, so classmate, Knew I was, without asking me. The last I went to the barber shop, When It was my turn for A hair cut, the barber, call justme, it is your turn.

Question: What do you miss by being, JustmeJimW?

Answer: I miss what most people have, The love of some, I know that a lot of people have agape for me. I miss have Kids, There are times, when to have my lunch in the park, Watch, mom and dad interact with they act. This what I think, I maybe wrong, But I do not get invite, you do thing with other people, as thing are for family and couples, and I do not drive, so someone take me, and there not always move for me. In 1993, I was invite to a birthday party for someone, someone who was also invite, told the host, “If JustmeJIMW comes I will not go”, So I was uninvited. That sill hurt. When you yell, “Help clean the house”, you get an yes or no answer, When I yell “Help clean the house”, I am talk to my self.

Question: Jim is it ok to tell you no?

Answer, Yes it is ok for anyone to tell me no, In my past, I give the yes answer, when real is was no, I learn to say no. If you answer Yes, then say yes, if your answer is no, tell maybe mens no, If you have to think about answer, nine out of ten time, your answer, is no. An maybe answer, tell me, You do know how to say NO. Yes it is no, to tell me no.

Question: Jim Where the bathroom, and may I use It?

Answer: Down the hall to the right, and yes you may us it.

Question: Jim, Where do you get your income and how do you spend your money?

Answer: The only money I get is from my stock dividend, I get no money from the government, 75% of my money to my every day bills, like heath insurance, food, gas, water, phone, etc., 25% for wants list, and must list. Now must think before buy.

Question: it is true that you have A spa and gazebo?

Answer: Yes I have a spa and gazebo, one day, I hope to have the money for the water to fill the spa(Jim’s Joke). The best time I have in spa, it was snowing, and the gazebo was with snow. My spa is my hide away, I put a CD, list to the in my Spa, I do my best think in my spa.

Question: Jim why do not you drive?

Answer: Back In 1966 in high School, I did take and pass Driver training. Back in 1971 and 1972, I did drive, I drove slow, and drove like A old lady, I not very comfortable drive, so I choose not to drive.

Question: Sir, you are have a garage sale?

Answer: No wait for someone to pick me up, When waiting for someone me pick up, I sit my garage, someone always me, “are you have a garage sale?” and I ways tell no.

Question: Jim how do I get to your house?

Answer: Where are you come from? I need know before I answer that

Question: Jim what time is it?

Answer: it depend when you ask that Question. But right now it is 6:06 Am, by watch.

Question: Why?

Answer: Sometime it is best not to know why, most of the times, you cannot change, the reason why, if good or bad, you must accept it, without know the reason why.

Question: What for Dinner?

Answer: Pizza most of time, sometime bake potato, Why, are you buy my dinner.

Question: Yes Jim, I will take to the meeting, what time do you want me, to pick you up?

Answer: the meeting is at 7pm, it takes 15 minutes to get there, so you can pick me up at 6;45pm, I will ready At 6:30, I do not want to get you waiting for me. I thank-you for going out of your way for me.

Question: Jim, have know for about four years, I have not met your sister, why?

Answer: This is justmejimw thing, Kept family from met friend, I an a very private person, my family is my family, my friends are friends, I just like that way.

Question: Jim, are you A Christian?

Answer: yes, I am A Christian, but I became a Christian for the wrong reason, I have no friends, so when A family ask me going to church them I say yes, just for the fellowship, I have always me in GOD, but GOD was not a part of my life. Today I am a true Christian, Jesus die for us, GOD made each of us, and each of has job in GOD plan. Today have the holy sprit within me. The bible talk of the fruit of spirit, which are Love, Joy, peace, patience, Kindness, Goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, Self-control. I just learn that if I, use, Self-control, patience, it will bring me much Love, Joy, Peace, Kindness, Goodness,Faithfulness, and Gentleness. We are be lost without Love in life, Of GOD, family, Friends.

Question: Jim, who are your Christian friends?

Answer: my Christian friends, know who are, without names, my Christian friends, from my church, the high Desert Emmaus, high desert chrysalis, Southern Sierra Emmaus, and my bible care group. And we all have a friend Jesus.

Question: Jim I have not seen you a church later, why?

Answer: Sometime I cannot find A ride, sometime I am out of town,

There times, when I am in a Justmejimw mood, do not to church.

Question: Who and what for pray for?

Answer: my friends, the people on the Emmaus walk, the Christian kids, but, most of time I Ask for my Forgiveness.

Question: have you read the bible,

Answer: yes, I have read the NIV bible,( and bought at wal-mart), thare are parts of the bible that I love, and parts of bible, that I do not understand.

Question: tell me, something about the walk to Emmaus.

Answer: I do not want to say, too much, let say this, the walk, is 72 hour on how GOD, works in your daily life, and he loves you and me.

The walk give me, a new love for the GOD. The will a part of my life, until the GOD take to his kingdom. DeColors

Question: Jim I did not, understand what you told me, can you repeat, your what you just say?

Answer: I get mad, when someone do not ask me to repeat myself, If you do not stand me, then my all means ask me to repeat, until do do understand me.

Question: Jim I did not, understand what you told me, can you repeat, your what you just say?

Answer: I get mad, when someone do not ask me to repeat myself, If you do not stand me, then my all means ask me to repeat, until do do understand me.

Question: is there any else you want to tell us, about justmejimw.

Answer: yes, I think of myself as a care and love person, I know that are thing that I must change myself. When someone tell no, I must remember the time they say yes. When so dose not have time for me, I must remember the time when did. I take things too personally, I must learn GOD first then family, then one self, then friends.

Let my say this, remember today, and tomorrow.