justme jimw Chapter 16

Chapter 16

JustmeJimW and the Family “C”

Just after I move to Victorville, CA, I new family movie in Across the street from me, I will call that Family, the “C” family, the husband was “H”, the Wife was “S”., H the husband, have A daughter from one of his old girl, who came you and every other weekend, “T” was “H” and “S” first child, the second Child, a Son, that I will call “B”, was born just after they move in, about I year Later “H” and “S”, have a son, that I will call “D”.

The “S” family in I life from, February 1992, to October 1999, the “S” family was the best and worst, thing that happened in my Life. This Is my side of the story, the “S” family have they.

The Husband and father “H”, got be start in running, he took me to the baseball games, and others Active.

The Wife “S”, got me involve, in they Church, she took on family outings, we took her to kids, out to lunch, and she would let me pay. After her son, “D” was born, She find that she have, chronic fatigue syndrome, She quite her job, and became stay at home mom.

She have A heard to get on social security disability, She told them, that she took after nap, and I would watch the kids. That was the only way she got on social security disability.

Between 1992 and 1999, I watch the kids grow, the last I saw them they was all way and happy. “D”, was like a son to me and the last I saw him, he was about start kindergarten.

When I baby sit for the “C” family kids, “S” would take me dinner and movie, this was ok with “H”, If I want more then friend, from “S”, I would have done to a dinner and movie, When We to a Movie, she made me sit a seat away from her.

When I did baby for her, it made feel better about myself.

When the Family when somewhere took me long, but if they did take the kids, they ask me to baby sit. One year they was going to new year eve party, there ask me, to baby sit, I told them no, that I would to go the party, they say, it was someone else, party, and they could invite anyone, I understand that, the next day, “S”, was on the phone to her sister, and she ask her, sister if she want to the that party, I got mad, as I could understand why if was ok, for her to ask her sister to the party, not me.

When “H” was mad it me, for someone reason, someone ask to sponsor me, to the Walk to Emmaus, I say yes, When ”H” and “S”, find out about me going to walk, they told that the walk was full, I knew that was not true, the real reason was that “H” was working the walk, and did not want me to go. Next walk, “H” and “S” sponsor me, on the walk to Emmaus. Which was High Desert Walk #26.

The when “S” got me to the river, “H” stay and watch the kids. I have a lot of fun, “S” has A nephew who I will call “J”, I did not like him, and he did not like me, At the was must be 15 or 16 years, “J” knew how to get to me, he was on jet ski, make wakes in the river, there was no wake allow, in the cove, I was on my raff, that was OK, I got mad and told “S”, but “J” was have fun, so I was out line, tell her.

Something I do not understand, when “J” and I. Get into disagreement, he was all right, I was wrong, always, “S” told Family is always right.

Over the years, we had many disagreement, but with time and understand, we overcome them, and we would make up. Until April 1999, now I tell you my side of the story, other may have they own side of story.

I must to back in time, so I can tell you, whole story, I loan the “C” family $3,400, that was may 1995, and made $100 payments each month, until sometime in 1999. Just before “D” was born, “H” was an affair, when “S” find out, she left with kids, she came within a week, but she start to have a lot of one night stand, in August of 1998, “H” ask me to go one a two trip, I say no. when “H” went for his two trip, “S” ask step mom son, to baby sit, “S” would go out, pick men, come home the next day, She did not have any time for me. Two day before “H” was due home, “S” met “D.T”, and fell in love with him, I found about it, but I say nothing at time, in day time, I was baby sit, “S” kid, “D”, she were come over to “D.T:” and have sex with him, at one time she was try to have a baby with “D.T.”, few she were break up with “D.T.”.

“S” had a friend from church, that I will call “L”, “S” and “L”, ask me to baby sit, and go out and pick-up mens.

By the way “L” is married with two kids. Sometime “L” and “S” would double date. “S” and me, have a bible study, one day A week, after bible study she would take home, go have sex with “D.T.” or someone. She pick “H” out house, she would bring “D.T” in to stay night after the day when to bed.

Christmas 1998, I when to breakfast with “C” family, after breakfast, I was hope to give the “C” Christmas gift from to them, but, “H” was take me home, and the kids to his mom house, “S” was going “D.T” house to have Christmas in bed with him. It was to far for to walk home. Some Christmas.

“J”, a of friend “S”, ask me to baby sit, and she would take me to lunch,

the following week, she did take to lunch with her kids. When I was baby sit, the kids from two house away, bring the door bell, I did not know her, she told me, that her dad was having a heart attack, I when to help, but I did not know, CPR, the person on 911 was try to teach me CPR, when the fire man, came, they over. I went back to “J” house, and I call her, I told what happen, I was sorry, but I want to go home. The next day “J” call me, told that the man die. I need to talk to “S”, went to her house, the garage was open, and the kid was playing in the garage, she told me, “J”, have call her, she knew why I came over, I told I want to talk, but she told me that, “D.T.” was on the way come, and she did have time to talk to me, just then “D.T.” pull up, “S” told to home, I was going of my mind, I call my pastor, it did help, I want to a talk a friend.

“S” came home with “D.T.”, the day before “H” told me that “S” was not seeing anymore “D.T.”, I was out of my mind, Told Call “S”, and say if “D.T’” would not go, I would call “H”, at work, so an hour later I call “H”, and told him that “D.T.” was at his house. That was time me and “S” talk nice to each other.

I lost it, I was out of my mind, I was not think right, after day, I would sit in my driveway watch the kids, one I saw “B” in his baseball uniform, so I when to taco bell, then to park, to watch “B” game, after I ate my dinner from taco bell, I when home, that night, “H”, call me, told not fellow his family, I told him, I have right, to have my dinner in the park.

On June 1, 1999, I wrote a letter to “S” to pay me, the money she and “H” owe me, I hand the note, and she throw the note down, and did not read it, she told to get out of driveway, I say as long as you owe me the money, I have right to come to her house, to get a payment. She told that she would not pay, so I file A small claim case, so I did.

I when I got home, from file the case, they was A massage to call the police, “S” call the police, tell them that I hassle told her. I return the call, As I have right to ask money that owe to me. The police, did return my phone call.

“H” made a deal with me to make two payments to pay me back. And he did.

After that “S” told me that one of her friend, would beat me up, So I began to take A tape record, when I walk pass her house, She wrote a letter to my sister, tell her that I hassle her, I was not hassle, I watch the her kids play.

I when did I was wrong, when “S” the same thing it was ok.

One day her nephew “J” came to my house, came into my garage, yell and scream at, to let is aunt be. I call the police, they came 5 hours, took me report, from me, “S”, “J”, and lady across the street, a few letter he went before a judge, but I do know what happen to him. I do care.

One day “S” friend “L”, was park in front of my house, she told me leave “S”, alone, I told her how “S” has hurt me, and I was doing the same to her. Then I told her, that “S” told that “L”, had a boy name “W”, “L” say it was not true, When I talk to someone At Church “L” were come ask the speak to them, and that was last time that person, to me.

Someone told that “L”, told them, I was the reason for the “H” and “S” leaving the church and for divorce. Which not true. After that, I got funny looks, and not many people were talk to me.

So I stop to going church, but I not lose my faith in God.

Yes, “S” and “H” got an divorce, and lost the house in foreclosure, and file for bankruptcy.

In October, they move away, I try to find but I could not. I miss the kids, I miss take “S” for dinner, I miss doing thing with “H”, I have forgiven than for hurt they me, I have Ask GOD, forgive, he has. I ask them to forgive. I know that cannot see the “C” family.